How Do I Take This Friendship to the Next Level Without Being Weird?
I promise it's not to make the first move!
Send the first text. Make the first call. Offer the first set of date suggestions for a hangout. You cannot get to know someone who seems like a potential friend if you’re unwilling to take an emotional risk with a first move.
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Dear Nina,
I would love your tips for getting to know someone I only see as part of an organized walking group I attend approximately three times a month for an hour at a time.
I see this person on the walks, and from the little chatting we do here and there, I get the feeling we could become friends outside of the walking group. However, I’m uncertain how to approach this when we are in a group setting all of the time.
Thanks, I don’t want to be weird!
Dear “I Don’t Want to be Weird,”
This is such a good question because I get a version of it fairly often. You’re not alone. So many people want to reach out to a new potential friend, but are afraid of being “weird.”
